Change for You and Me

This word rings a bell to all of us some with rage and some who is not able to put their feelings in some kind of words right. Well at times I too feel the same. I just want to know what exactly is this Society? Who exactly does it consist of? I mean who are those innumerable people who affects our life on daily basis and we are not even aware of them. I mean in India i have heard this statement quite common  "समाज  क्या कहेगा " Which means, what will the society say? and the other common words would be "लोग क्या कहेंगे " which means, what will people say? To all those people who said "समाज  क्या कहेगा " just tell me one thing where are you people when someone is being harnessed,  where are you people when someone is being abused, where are you people when someone is suffering. You would give me an answer we are not someone who has all the time in the world to look after all these things. It happened and what would I do in it. Basically something l

The word Self Respect is small for those who do not want to keep. But who does not feel that their self-respect is important. Be it educated or uneducated. There is minor difference when the self-respect turns to ego and that is something one need to be careful about. Self-Respect is at times a self-explanatory word, but still if we want to break it into simple words then it is a confidence in a way we carry ourselves. While it is necessary to not let people take us for granted. At times the love that we have for people make us forget our oneself and in all this we forget that we could make something for ourselves and let people rule us, rule us out of our own beliefs and views. Stating a disrespect as if “Their mood must be bad” “They might not be feeling right” And tons of other reasons. Well we need to think that those are reasons and reasons only as somewhere deep down everyone knows that no matter what we are feel we cannot let people to destroy it in the name of love, bu