Change for You and Me

This word rings a bell to all of us some with rage and some who is not able to put their feelings in some kind of words right. Well at times I too feel the same. I just want to know what exactly is this Society? Who exactly does it consist of? I mean who are those innumerable people who affects our life on daily basis and we are not even aware of them. I mean in India i have heard this statement quite common  "समाज  क्या कहेगा " Which means, what will the society say? and the other common words would be "लोग क्या कहेंगे " which means, what will people say? To all those people who said "समाज  क्या कहेगा " just tell me one thing where are you people when someone is being harnessed,  where are you people when someone is being abused, where are you people when someone is suffering. You would give me an answer we are not someone who has all the time in the world to look after all these things. It happened and what would I do in it. Basically something l

The word Self Respect is small for those who do not want to keep. But who does not feel that their self-respect is important. Be it educated or uneducated. There is minor difference when the self-respect turns to ego and that is something one need to be careful about. Self-Respect is at times a self-explanatory word, but still if we want to break it into simple words then it is a confidence in a way we carry ourselves. While it is necessary to not let people take us for granted. At times the love that we have for people make us forget our oneself and in all this we forget that we could make something for ourselves and let people rule us, rule us out of our own beliefs and views. Stating a disrespect as if “Their mood must be bad” “They might not be feeling right” And tons of other reasons. Well we need to think that those are reasons and reasons only as somewhere deep down everyone knows that no matter what we are feel we cannot let people to destroy it in the name of love, bu

Doubtful on why something like this is there, then let me tell you something Lost means something that is not found, is it really. In today's world there are many things that are lost. More than tangible there are more things that are just intangible in nature. Lost is the humanity, lost is the trust, lost is compassion, Lost is the friendship, Lost is the respect. In this fast growing and developing world one is forgetting the basic values on which we humans work. The values which we were taught when we were growing up. Where is that or is it that people forget to give and imbibe the legacy of values in the world to just earn money and run the house on two wheels. From two kids now there are single kids as one cannot afford two children making them to become selfish and self centered. Where is that one thing among the family that is lacking and that is where does that love among the family member's lie, does it lie in the family vacations portrait or is it still there w

Well we are the youth of today, we are the generation where technology becomes a part of our life but still we are generation who know what is wrong and what is right... We know where are boundaries lie, or where we need to stop. We make a career as our priority but we know where our family needs to come to the top list... To the parents out there we might at times disrespect you but we did not intend to. We do it unintentionally as at times other things would be running in our mind.. we realise that we are wrong and so we apologize too. This is us. we consider emotions as equal as our approach to practicality. We might have big giant size egos but still we know where compromise and understanding falls... We the generation of today want to grab things that come to the ladder of our success.. but then if something comes which might hinder it but is necessary is what we do it without anything coming our way or thinking about it as  an object blocking our success. Our eating habits ma